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  Book for You

  [Book for You] An Ex's Guilty Pleasure

  (On a boat at sea) [Heo Gyun]The world is a vast place,and people's stories are truly varied. [Heo Nanseolheon]Absolutely. It's surprising to seehow many people have daily struggles!Wouldn't it be wonderfulto live in a worry-free world? [Heo Gyun]Here comes another story! [Heo Nanseolheon]This one is from Sri Lanka. Dear Team Heo,I created a Facebook account to spy on my ex-boyfriend once.- Hellotalk [Heo Gyun]Well, in the age of social media,we've all been there, done that. [Heo Nanseolheon]Just don’t hit the like buttonby mistake, right? Haha. [Heo Gyun]Let me find something that could help.Got it! It’s a short story titled "About Naju"by Kim Hwa-jin. [Heo Nanseolheon]Naju must be an important character. [Heo Gyun]In this story, a woman named Dan meets her late boyfriend’s ex, Naju, at work. But already having spied on her online, Dan knows a lot about her.Instead of being jealous, she likes Naju and wants to impress her. [Heo Nanseolheon]Some people might not get the way Dan behaves towards Naju. Haha. Maybe Dan is trying to remember her late boyfriend, Gyuhee, through Naju?  [Heo Gyun]Incessantly going through her Instagram,Facebook, and blog,I'm bound to find traces of Gyuhee.I do it over and over again.Even when there are no new updates,I keep browsing until I find his traces.I look at his comments and photos,not to mention the posts he is tagged inbefore I finally close the window,with my heart pounding and cheeks flushed.- Kim Hwa-jin, "About Naju," About Naju (Munhakdongne, 2022)  With Gyuhee gone, Dan spies on Naju’s social media to hold on to her feelings. [Heo Nanseolheon]In a way, it’s natural to feel that way. [Heo Gyun]Exactly. Wondering how an ex is doing,checking if they’re having a hard time like you,not wanting them to move on too quickly—those are the most natural reactions. [Heo Nanseolheon]The key is to realize that what you're feeling is natural, and that you should accept it. It's my turn now.I've got ""Ghost's Time"" by Eugene Mok. I was in the wrongYou did nothing wrongOnly if lies would keep us togetherLoveYetSilence was the only answer- Eugene Mok, "Ghost's Time," Birth of a Writer (Minumsa, 2020)  The speaker thinks they're to blame for the breakup. But the message of the poem is that blaming oneself is a "lie." The speaker desperately wants to keep the love, even if it involves lying. Yet, the speaker knows thatthey can't fix broken love that way.Still, they can't let go of past love, lingering around it constantly like a ghost. [Heo Gyun]Nobody is completely fine after a breakup.Many people get hung up on past love.Who knows? The speaker might have spiedon their ex's social media, too. Hahaha! [Heo Nanseolheon]It won't be easy for the time being,but I suggest deleting your new FB account.Whenever you feel like looking him up,just ask yourself, ""What good would it do?" [Heo Gyun]But if you still can't look away, what else can you do but keep going?I guess the obstacle only fuels the desire.If it makes you feel better, do whatever your heart desires. [Heo Nanseolheon]That's one way to deal with it.Even right now, many people are creating secret SNS accounts to spy on their exes.People get over breakups at different speeds.Hellotalk, you're just taking a little longer.Please don't worry about it too much. [Heo Gyun]This, too, will pass. Time heals everything, so don't worry. [Heo Nanseolheon]Aright, let's move on then. Translated by Helen Cho

  by Korean Literature Now

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  Book for You

  [Book for You] An EXO Fan's Guilty Pleasure

  (On a boat at sea) [Heo Gyun]Summer is already here!It's getting so hot. [Heo Nanseolheon]I should've brought my fan. [Heo Gyun]Let's get some watermelon and cool off later.Here is our letter for today. [Heo Nanseolheon]Flying all the way from India must have been pretty strenuous for the bird. Dear Team Heo,My secret is that I buy EXO merchandise like light sticks, albums, and clothes with my own money, and then tell my family that I got them as gifts.- Juban [Heo Gyun]That's so sweet! Why does Juban keep it a secret? [Heo Nanseolheon]She must have her reasons.I hope she finds today's catch helpful. [Heo Gyun]Let's see what I can fish out for her.Here is Hold My Universe by Park Sa-rang. [Heo Nanseolheon]What a romantic title! [Heo Gyun]The novel follows Yang, Didi, and Jenna,three women in their 30s brimming with love and passion.They’ve been fans of various idols since they were 19.Now they feel like they're raising babies.Oh, this is not a story about dating, but about fandom culture. Their first idols were older than them. Now much older than their idols, the women affectionately call them 'babies.' Despite their modest salaries, high rent, and social pressure to marry,they each keep their passion alive. When Didi learns of the passing of her idol Yuya,she travels to Japan and meets Ken, a male fan. I hastily pulled out my purse and offered to pay, But he refused, saying: “Just consider it a gift from Yuya.”  - Park Sa-rang, "Hold My Universe," Hold My Universe(Jaeum&Moeum Publishing, 2019)  [Heo Nanseolheon]Eating out with someone you’ve just met can lead to awkward moments when the bill arrives. This is such a lovely way to handle it. [Heo Gyun]I agree! Despite the solemn occasion, Didi can't help but compliment him. Juban, why not consider your purchases as gifts from your favorite EXO member? That way, it will be easier for you to tell your family that they're from your friends. [Heo Nanseolheon]I appreciate you spending your own money.But there must be other reasons why you want to keep it a secret. If you feel that your family might interfere too much, it's probably best to keep them in the dark. This 'white lie' will help you preserve your love and passion.  [Heo Gyun]After all, you should eliminate anything that gets in the way of your love. [Heo Nanseolheon]I’ve caught “Bronze Mirror” by Park YeonJoon.  But in the past I was wrong.I was wrong. Like twisted jokes in twisted times,I grew up. It’s worth recording. I was wrong time and again,wrong repeatedly,wrong in all different ways! Not now. But in the past, I was wrong.  -Park YeonJoon, “Bronze Mirror,” Go See If Love Is Dead (Munhakdongne,2024)  Park's message is clear and simple.She has experienced countless “wrongs!”Now she's mature enough torecord them all with honesty. Her confession that she was “wrong time and again”and “wrong repeatedly” conveys her determinationthat she will follow the right path from now on. Juban, you may believe it's wrong to claim that you received EXO merchandise as gifts.While others may not see it as a big deal,what matters is that you feel guilty about lying. I'm not saying you should come clean about everything. It's important that you try not to be ""wrong"" from now on. [Heo Gyun]There is a Korean proverb that says“To make a sore by scratching.”It means you should not stir up a hornet’s nest.One solution is to let sleeping dogs lie,and bury minor wrongdoings of the past.  [Heo Gyun]Please don't trouble yourself too much. Just remember one thing when buying merch in the future.Don't go overboard just because your bias is paying for it, hahaha! [Heo Nanseolheon]You know what? I'm actually a little jealous of Juban for having the means to buy merch, the energy to cherish her passion, and also for having someone who brings joy into her life. [Heo Gyun]I hope our book prescriptions are helpful.Think about what gives you peace of mind,and enjoy being an idol fan! [Heo Nanseolheon]Alright then, it’s time for us to go! Translated by Helen Cho

  by Korean Literature Now

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  Book for You

  [Book for You] A 68-Year-Old K-Drama Fan's Guilty Pleasure

  (On a boat at sea)[Heo Gyun]Did I eat too much earlier?I’m so full I could burst.[Heo Nanseolheon]I told you not to have another bowl.[Heo Gyun]Not to worry!It won’t stop me from going over the letters.And here’s our first letter for today. [Heo Nanseolheon]This one is from the UK.  Dear Team Heo,I’m a 68 year old woman with a guilty secret that none of my friends would understand.I swoon over the male leads in K-dramas!They’re gorgeous and incredibly talented. Am I too immature for my age?- Lulu  [Heo Gyun]What a cute letter![Heo Nanseolheon]Just another passionate K-drama fan.But she’s one of a kind in her age group.She must’ve been so lonely.[Heo Gyun]Right, then! What’s the catch of the day? Phantom Limb Pain by Lee Heejoo[Heo Nanseolheon]What a fascinating title![Heo Gyun]This is the story of two twentysomethings, M and Manok, both avid fans of an idol named Minkyu. Alongside them is another person, also named Minkyu, who harbors deep feelings for M. The narrative delves into the profound depths of human love. Whether I’m nine or ninety, Minkyu remains his lovable self.(…)But people always take issue with our age gap. Despite knowing that everyone is drawn to beauty, they see me as an eccentric solely because of my age. — Lee Heejoo, "Phantom Limb Pain," Phantom Limb Pain(Munhakdongne, 2016)[Heo Nanseolheon]Sounds like Lulu's story!She’d find it relatable and burst out laughing.[Heo Gyun]It’s a lot like her situation, isn’t it? Lulu thinks that her friends won't understand herbut I wonder if that's really the case. She could be worrying over nothing.Maybe if you muster the courage to talk about it, you might be delighted to discover that your friends feel the same. And if anyone does judge youhow about you shoot back?Lee Sora once sang, ‘Don’t tell me that my love isn’t true.’ [Heo Nanseolheon]Indeed, everyone’s love is unique in its depth and expression.[Heo Nanseolheon]It’s my turn now!The Lovely Calves of My Life by Hwang Insook.A not-very-long escalatorComes down not-very-fastSquirm, squirm, squirmThe steps descendAnd upstreamMy soles itch to leapThe escalator gathers speedAt that rate, I think I can winBut if I fail, what a sorry sightTwo hands braced before meBottom out, slidingAnd if I succeed, what a sorry sightA woman her age,Doing something like that?They’d all take shots at meSquirm, squirm, the escalator stepsDescend endlesslyInviting me to give it a climb—Hwang Insook, “Waiting for the Train,” The Lovely Calves of My Life(Munhakgwajiseongsa, 2022)The poet is in her 60s but still writes like she’s in her prime.I'm reminded of Lulu’s unwavering passion.Some might criticize a woman her age for trying to run up a downward escalator, saying: 'A woman her age, doing something like that?' But when the escalator tempts us, inviting us to climb,age becomes irrelevant.how could we resist such a sweet lure?[Heo Gyun]That’s right. Isn’t that how our hearts work? They remain the same no matter how old we are.[Heo Gyun]I remember a conversation I had with Mother when I was about 10.One day, I came home after running around outside, having fun with my friends.I found her doing the dishes.'Do grown-ups ever have any fun?' I asked.Mother, who was in her 40s at the time, stopped washing the dishes and said, ‘Your heart remains the same no matter how old you are.’[Heo Nanseolheon]Huh, I didn’t know about that.The heart ages much slower than the body.Those whose hearts grow old before their bodies are unfortunate. I wonder if Lulu’s ageless heart might be the most essentially human part of her. I hope that Lulu remains the same at age 78, 88, even 98! [Heo Gyun]Make sure this gets there in one piece![Heo Nanseolheon]Right then, let’s get going again. Translated by Jean Kim

  by Korean Literature Now

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  Book for You

  [Book for You] My guilty pleasure, BL Dramas

  (On a boat at sea) [Heo Gyun]What a beautiful day it is, Sister. A great day for a book recommendation, I’d say. [Heo Nanseolheon]That’s right! It completely slipped my mind… Oh, looks like the letter’s coming in now. [Heo Gyun]This letter’s come all the way from Egypt.  [Heo Nanseolheon]Let’s take a look.   Dear Team Heo,I grew up in a conservative household.But when I was in high school, I stumbled upon a BL TV series and got hooked. I started watching more in secret.But I couldn’t share my new interest online.Things are different now, because I’ve met a group of supportive friends. We talk about our favorite shows together,and even share recommendations. Still, I can’t bring myself to share this guilty pleasure with others just yet.Should I do something about it?—Noono   [Heo Gyun]BL…Keeping that secret must’ve weighed heavy on her heart. [Heo Nanseolheon]That’s for sure. Not to mention the constant worry that her parents might find out…  [Heo Gyun]Right!Let’s start fishing. Ah, Dear My Bias by Ryu Shieun. [Heo Nanseolheon]That title alone is really something. [Heo Gyun]This is a story about otaku just like Noono. The narrator goes to an idol performance.There she meets a young woman with green hair, who strikes up a conversation upon seeing her phone wallpaper. Having scrutinized me carefully, Green Hair leaned forward and asked furtively:“Unni, we’re in-laws, right?”“Excuse me?” “Well, you’re a Hobil shipper too, aren’t you? Everyone knows this photo. Hobin and Jinil? No?”   —Ryu Shieun, Dear My Bias (p. 15) They say one otaku attracts another. It turns out both the narrator and Green Hair have a soft spot for the Hobin and Jinil pairing, commonly known as ‘Hobil.’ Isn’t it funny how two peopleimmediately become “in-laws”when they realize their top two favorites overlap? [Heo Nanseolheon]What a rare and precious connection. [Heo Gyun]The two geek out over a beer until late into the evening. When Green Hair says she plans to spend the night at a 24-hour café, the narrator convinces her to share her hotel room, where they both get a hot shower and a good night’s rest. The next morning, they buy matching outfits before parting ways. [Heo Nanseolheon]It seems to me that Noono’s connection with her friends is like the narrator’s with Green Hair. The friends who support Noono’s passionate love without trying to change her feel like her haven, just like the safe shelter the narrator provides for Green Hair. [Heo Gyun]I see Noono’s gratitude toward her friendsreflected in the image of Green Hair waiting for the narrator to wake up with a freshly bought morning coffee in hand. You know as well as I do, don’t you, that you can’t click like this right away with just any friend? [Heo Nanseolheon]Of course. So it’s my turn now! I’ve caught “A Poem Good for Your Health” by Ko Seonkyeong, featuring a poet-cum-narrator and her mother. My mom is always wondering about the potency of things—the potency of blueberries,the potency of tomatoes,the potency of gardenias. I obsess over the potency of kindness,or the potency of poetry. Affection and gazes filled with warmth and attention…think you want them? […] But Mom, do you see?They see me and laugh. The reason Mom eats blueberriesis because blueberries are good for the eyes—Bullshit. Mom just likes blueberries. —Ko Seonkyeong, Shower Gel and Soda Water  The narrator does not believe there’s any ‘pathos, kind gazes, or warm attention’ in her poetry. In fact, some people even mock her work. Still, she considers her poem to be ‘good for the health.’ [Heo Gyun]Efficacy and health… [Heo Nanseolheon]Noono, don’t you think that healthy peoplecan have their own preferences? And doesn’t having those preferences make you healthier in turn? The poet’s mother “just likes blueberries.” There’s no reason for your preferences, so just like what you like. Isn’t that what a truly healthy preference is?  [Heo Gyun]That’s right, there’s no shame in liking something. Noono, I’d like for you to focus on the people with whom you can safely share what you like, not the people you have to hide it from. That way, couldn’t you one day be a safe space for your friends when they share their own special preferences? [Heo Nanseolheon]Absolutely!There’s no need to reveal your secrets to everyone! Doesn’t everyone have their own private story? It’s enough for you to open up when you feel it’s safe to do so. Having definite preferences is a testamentto your health in both mind and body. I hope you can share your healthy preferences with your healthy friends to your heart’s content! [Heo Gyun]Make sure this gets there in one piece! [Heo Nanseolheon]Right then, let’s get going again!  Translated by Jean Kim 

  by Korean Literature Now

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  Book for You

  [Book for You] I love my daughter, but I feel alone.

  Sohn Jeong-seung(Sohn): Hello! We’re the book prescribers, providing comfort in your time of need through the medium of books.I’m Sohn Jeong-seung! Kim Sanghyuk(Kim): And I’m Kim Sanghyuk, the man who speaks through poems. Kim: It’s said that even married couples often feel lonely.This is especially true of women, who generally do the childrearing.In many of these cases, these women report feelings of depression and loneliness. Sohn: I think our letter this time is experiencing something similar.Let’s listen to it together. Kim: This letter comes to us from Thoraia in Egypt. Thoraia’s letter to Book for You I am the mother to a young daughter who will be turning three years old soon. Sometimes I find myself crying from stress and loneliness. It's hard to be doing all the childcare when I work as well and my husband comes home late each day. I used to think I was happy, but not anymore. I love my daughter, but at the same time I feel alone. Sohn: When I saw this letter, my thoughts immediately went toTo the Lost Name, a collection of interrelated short stories by the writer Kim Yi-seol. The subtleties of this type of book lie in the way little details connect each story to one another.This collection features four married women who each star as the main character of her story—women who pass tissues to one another in the hospital or a café,or happen to find themselves viewing the same artwork in the hospital lobby. The waiting patients were stealing glances at So-yeong, but her tears kept flowing without end. The middle-aged woman sitting next to her passed her a tissue she’d fished out of her handbag. She briefly met the eyes of a married woman walking to the examination room after being called, whose gaze said she understood So-yeong completely.From “Lost Child” Sohn: The lobby of the hospital in this story has a Rothko hanging on the wall.Mark Rothko apparently once asked for his paintings to be viewed from a distance of 18 inches (45 cm). The literary critic Park Hye-jin, who provided commentary on this collection, refers to this distance not as one of observation, but as a “distance of participation.” Thoraia, I hope that you’ll never forget that there are precious people around you who can pass you a tissue from eighteen inches away, even if they may be far away in body if not in spirit. I also hope that you’ll never forget your name,as that’s also something Kim Yi-seol asks of her readers. Kim: Though we take our individuality for granted up until marriage,it’s easy to forget once you have children that you’re more than just a parent. I think the words “Don’t forget your name” will be a great comfort to us all. “Think of your loved ones who will call your nameand pass you a tissue from 18 inches away.” Kim: Listening to this letter reminded me of when I was caring for my three-year-old.Back then, I think I was even more exhausted mentally than I was physically. Children need to be watched constantly, even if they aren’t doing anything special,and their needs met whenever they arise. You’re not really using your head much, just staring at your kid all day long.While I was spending my time spacing out like that, I knew my friends would be reading and studying and working, and I think it was this idea that they’d all be leaving me behind that made me feel more depressed. To console Thoraia in her time of loneliness,here’s an excerpt from Park Joon’s poem “Autumn Words.” You’re lonely, right? But that’s not loneliness if you look there’s someone who’s thinking about you they’re lonely too that makes two alone then that’s not loneliness, From “Autumn Words” Kim: How’s that?I think all I can do is recommend overcoming your lonelinessby finding comfort in others who feel just as alone. There must be others near you who like poetry and Korean literature.I have faith that in the process of reading together, a club of one could become two, and then three, and then ten, letting you conquer your loneliness at least a little. “May one and one come together to fill up the space of loneliness…” Sohn: The idea that “two alone is not loneliness”is a great comfort for me as well. Hoping that our words today will shine a light in the darkness for Thoraia,we’ll say our goodbyes for now. Kim: Book for You: Sohn: A book for you! Bye! Today’s Prescriptions: To the Lost Name & We Could See the Rainy Season Together   Translated by Jean Kim 

  by Korean Literature Now

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  Book for You

  [Book for You] I Still Miss My Father.

  Sohn Jeong-seung(Sohn): Hello!Providing comfort through the medium of books,I’m Sohn Jeong-seung, the book prescriber! Kim Sanghyuk(Kim): And I’m Kim Sanghyuk, the man who speaks through poems. Kim: Everyone needs somebody to depend on.But what happens if one day, that somebody disappears? Sohn: Today we’d like to introduce the story of someone who is strugglingwith the absence of the father she considered a lifelong mentor. This letter comes to us from Yara in Egypt. Yara’s letter to Book for you My father was always kind. He granted my every wish, combed my hair, and took me on picnics to the beach. Ever since he passed away, it feels like everything is over. It’s been fifteen years, and I have work and hobbies to fill my time, but whenever I remember my father, I just wish I could return to the past. Will I ever stop feeling this way? Kim: I think it’s all too natural to long for a loved one even after their death, and to wish to return to the past. But I wonder if Yara could become someone who yearns for the pastand misses her father even while living a full life in the present,as some pasts, feelings, and memories are never really overcome.I don’t think it’s a bad thing to acknowledge that. So my prescription is “Catch That Spring,” by the poet Kim Hyesoon.  Some things can’t be helped this way or thatSpring takes my mother like a swaddle made of flowers Catch that springI flail my hands like a woman blindfolded(…) No, the flowers can’t bloomNo one can I say the magic words From "Catch That Spring"   Kim: Sensing that her mother will pass away come spring, the poet records in the form of a poemher wish that the season of blooming flowers might never come. The poet, Kim Hyesoon, lost her mother as well.But she preserved her final feelings in a poem,revisiting her longing for her mother again and again in its reading. I think that Yara’s father will only truly disappear from this worldif she stops missing or remembering him. So I hope that she can lead a healthy life in the presenteven as she continues to miss her father and look back at the past. As long as it lives on in memory, love never disappears. Sohn: I too could feel in the letter how much Yara and her father loved each other,I finally decided on Jeong Ji A’s novel, My Father’s Liberation Journal. Sohn: This book begins with the sudden death of the narrator’s father,who passes, absurdly, by hitting his head on a telephone pole.The novel takes place over the course of the three days of her father’s funeral,as the narrator comes to discover a new side of her fatherin the strangers who come to pay their respects. Though she’d always thought of her father as someone who struggled to stay afloat,she learns that there were people who were able to get surgery or marriedthrough her father’s help, and that his little brother who seemingly hated him all his lifeactually loved him deeply. In this way she comes to see the many different facets to her father,and to look ahead to the future. Father was gone, but snapshots of him were preserved in the hours of someone’s memory, to return vividly to life whenever he was remembered. A wave of longing came over me for the innumerable snapshots of my father that must exist within my own hours.From My Father’s Liberation Journal Sohn: Yara, I think your broken heart must trouble you often. But one thing I dearly hope you’ll rememberis that there is no set timeline for mourning. Everyone inevitably needs a different amount of time to overcome grief,whether that be one year, or ten, or twenty.We hope that with time, your life will begin to fill with quiet joys as your sorrow gradually fades, leaving in its placean abundance of love and beautiful memories. There is no set timeline for grief.Someday the sorrow in your heart will be overtaken by beautiful memories. Kim: Someone once said, “Scars are proof of how much we have loved.And so scars are beautiful things.” We’ll end today’s story on this note, in hopes that these words will be of comfort to Yara. Kim: Book for You— Sohn: A book for you! Bye! Today’s Prescriptions:After Earth Dies, Who Will Moon Orbit? & My Father’s Liberation Journal Translated by Jean Kim

  by Korean Literature Now

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  Book for You

  [Book for You] I’ve Received Two Proposals.

  Sohn Jeong-seung(Sohn): Hello! Providing comfort through the medium of books,I’m Sohn Jeong-seung, the book prescriber!  Kim Sanghyuk(Kim): And I’m Kim Sanghyuk, the man who speaks through poems.Sohn: They say that timing is everything in love.You can only fall in love if you both feel the same way at the same time,but the chances of that are slim. Kim: That’s what makes the couples who are in love right now so amazing—they’ve found each other despite those incredible odds. Sohn:  Today’s letter-writer is struggling with just this timing in love.Let’s hear her story. Sarah’s letter to Book for You I was in love with one guy for five years, but no matter how much time passed, I couldn’t confess my feelings. I finally lost hope, even changing jobs because I found it too hard to face him any longer. A coworker in my new workplace proposed to me, but then my previous crush asked to meet. He told me that he’d liked me for years, but hadn’t had the courage to tell me due to his family circumstances. Now that the situation has improved, he wants to marry me. What should I do? Sohn:  There’s a book I’d like to introduce Sarah to that I think is perfect for her situation:Contradictions by the writer Yang Gui-ja, which was first published in 1998and has been beloved by readers ever since.  Sohn: The main character of Contradictions, An Jin-jin, is caught between two men.The first, Kim Jang-u, is an artistic soul,empathetic and thoughtful but poor.The second, Na Yeong-gyu, is well-off and loves Jin-jin deeply,but she is unable to feel what she thinks of as “true love” for him.Yet in truth Jin-jin knows which of the two she should choose for a smooth road ahead,both financially and emotionally. I was really curious. It didn't matter if it was Na Yeong-gyu or Kim Jang-u or somebody else. How and when would I be able to make up my mind and say, "Yes, I will marry him"? How did all those people who are married decide, anyway?From Contradictions Sohn: As Jin-jin’s ultimate choice is the great attraction of this book, I’ll keep that a secret.But I was just thinking— Jin-jin tries to show Jang-u only the best parts of herself,but in front of Yeong-gyu, she ends up showing even what she hides from Jang-u.Jin-jin doubted whether that was love,but I think that’s a form of love as well.In short, I hope you can follow your heart.I think that’s the only way to make a choice you won’t regret.Truthfully, I think that whomever you choose, there’ll be both regret and joy in that decision.I only hope that it’ll be possible to end things with whomever you didn’t choose with certainty and respect.We’ll be supporting you from afar! “Love is something done with the heart, not the head!”   Kim: We’re all faced with the question of love at least once over the course of our lives.I think that in these moments, we must respond with love.Today, I’ve brought with me a poem by Hwang Inchan called “Where Is the Friend's House?”  Yong-su was my friend, we often played together as kidsOut in the alleys all day[. . .]Whenever I met up with Yong-suI lost track of time catching dragonflies and skipping rocksThe day we played hide-and-seek in the sun shower I went back home so that Yong-su wouldn’t find me After that I never saw Yong-su againAnd even now when it rains on a clear day I remember back then Whenever anyone asks me about my first loveI tell them this storyFrom “Where Is the Friend's House?” Kim: The narrator of the poem simply had fun playing with Yong-su,whom they only thought of as a friend, and now doesn’t even know where he is.But looking back on that moment a long way down the road, they confess that was love.I’m very curious about what Sarah’s choice will be as well,but I think what’s most important is that, when it comes to questions about love,simplifying the question—for example, “Who is it that I love?”—and answering it with all our heart is the best any of us can do. “Questions about love should be answered solely with love.”  Sohn: Sometimes, the more complicated the problem,the simpler you need to think to find its answer.I think that’s especially true of matters of the heart. Kim: Hoping this video will have helped Sarah to find her answer,we’ll say goodbye for now.  Kim: Book for You  Sohn: A book for you!  Sohn&Kim: Bye!   Today’s Prescriptions: Contradictions  &  Let’s Say This Is How I Feel 

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  Book for You

  [Book for You] Over two years, I still can't get over him.

  Sohn Jeong-seung(Sohn): Hello everyone! We’re the book prescribers, providing comfort in your time of need through the medium of books.I’m SohnJeong-seung !  Kim Sanghyuk(Kim): And I’m Kim Sanghyuk, the man who speaks through poems!  Sohn: There are some couples, whether they’re married or just dating, that are so different from each other that they always end up fighting. Kim: That’s right! Our letter-writer today is someone who’s struggling with the same problem.Let’s take a look.   Sohn: Today’s letter comes to us from Phee in Nigeria. Phee’s letter to Book for You We loved each other, but we were always fighting, breaking up, making up, breaking up again… It was exhausting. We’ve been apart for over two years now, but I still can’t seem to get over him. What should I do? Kim:  The reason it’s hard to advise Phee to just forget the past and move on isthat love is like a living organism, and some loves do come back to life.That said, I do want to say that the time and effort you’ve poured into a relationship doesn’t oblige youto stay bound to the past, keeping up a love that only hurts you.The most important thing to remember is that love is not pain.If anything, I think that love is the act of sharing pain to lighten its load.On that note, I’d like to introduce one of my favorite poems: “The Invention of Love,”from the poet Lee Yeong-gwang’s collection The Tree Is Going.  You said that if ever you grew tired of living and living You’d dig a hole in the mountains where nobody goesAnd climb in and lie down and refuse to eat[ . . . ]So shocked was I that like lightning,Like lightning, I had to invent love.From “The Invention of Love ” Kim: I can’t say for sure what Phee’s decision should be, but I think it is worth thinking over at least once whether this is a love that saves one another, or one that only brings pain. The moment true love is invented, our pain disappears.  Kim:  You could say this is the essence of love the poet is writing about.I think that when Lee Yeong-gwang speaks of “the moment love is invented,” he’s referring to a love that saves a life.  Sohn: I once took about five years to let go of a past love myself, so this letter really resonated with me.I thought a lot about which book to recommend to Phee, and I finally settled on the title story “Us” from Tomorrow’s Lovers, a collection of short stories by the writer Jung Young Su. Sohn: The narrator, a former editor, is approached by a couple looking to write a book about their romance. The story follows the narrator and the couple, Jung-eun and Hyeon-su , over the course of their brief acquaintance.Seeing these two as mature adults, the narrator comes to compare their relationship with his own love and is inspired to begin writing a letter to his ex, Yeon-gyeong. Unfortunately, that letter doesn’t come easy. My words were tiptoeing around the point. I had to speak to her directly—not in hollow symbols, but in my own raw voice. But in fact what I realized after I began writing was that, let alone what I wanted to say to Yeon-gyeong, I didn’t even know exactly how I felt about her. From “Us”     Sohn: If you keep dwelling on the past, that can become a habit in itself, even if your ex no longer has an important place in your life. So what I want to say to Phee is that, even if you come to rekindle your love, I hope you’ll take the time to really consider whether this is right for you. The act of recalling the past is neither remembrance nor record,but reinterpretation and reinvention.  Sohn: There’s an incredible twist at the end of “Us,” so I hope you can find your answer as you read the story through.  Kim: Love is important too, but isn’t it true that we learn a lot through breakups? I think that one thing is for sure: farewells help us to grow up, and to grow stronger.  Sohn: We’ve been receiving an amazingly diverse range of personal stories on the theme of “Love.”I’m looking forward to seeing what kind of story will be awaiting us next time.  Kim: Then till next time… Book for You:  Sohn:  A book for you! Sohn&Kim: Bye!  Today’s Prescriptions:The Tree Is Going   &  Tomorrow’s Lovers

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  Book for You

  [Book for You] Is it a problem that I’m asexual?

  Sohn Jeong-seung(Sohn): We are book prescribers, providing comfort in your time of need through the medium of books. I’m Sohn Jeong-seung. Kim Sanghyuk(Kim): And I’m Kim Sanghyuk. Sohn: Today’s letter is from someone who was faced with rejection from others due to her asexuality, a sexual orientation that hasn’t received a lot of societal attention to date.Kim: This letter comes to us from Egypt, written by UGLY DUCK. UGLY DUCK’s Letter: "Is it a problem that I’m asexual?"   I’ve never once fallen in love, and I’ve been single my whole life.But when I told others that I’m comfortable living this way, I wastold that I seem “not human.” Later I came to realize my identityas an asexual. It’s hard to find a partner without a sexualconnection when sex permeates everything. Do you know of anycases of asexual couples? Sohn: Discussing a kind of love that you’ve never personally experienced is something that needs to be approached with a lot of sensitivity, so this was a tough nut to crack, but who are we? Kim: Kim Sanghyuk.Sohn: And Sohn Jeong-seung, sending comfort through books!Sohn: You don’t know what a relief it was that we managed to find a novel that made us think “Eureka!” This is Bodies and Women, by the writer Lee Seo Su.  Sohn: This book isn’t about an asexual couple,but it is one in which a woman who doesn’t feel sexual desire makes a sole confession in her own words about her body and her sexuality.  Yeongseok, people say that a healthy life is one where you enjoy sex to your heart’s content, but people like me who don’t like sex exist too. To someone like me, words like those feel like a kind of violence[…] I want to use my body as much as I like for meeting up and talking with the people I like, and eating delicious food, and taking in beautiful landscapes, and drinking cool beer, and sleeping soundly, but not for sex[…] If I do have sex, I only want to have it with myself. Because I’m the only person who won’t wound my body, who can guess at the depths of my heart.From Bodies and Women Sohn: The writer speaks through this character to express the idea that creating standards for normality and pressuring someone into liberation is a different kind of oppression. The protagonist says that her existence is not wrong, but different. There’s a line I once read that said, “We read to know we are not alone” (William Nicholson, Shadowlands). I think it would be good for UGLY DUCK to read this book. There are no wrong existences. We are all just different. Kim: Every country is different in its culture, so I don’t think I can speak lightly about this matter, but what I can say for sure is that “living alone” is a personal choice. What we need is a good person we can connect with, not someone we share a bed with. So the book I’ve brought today is a collection of poetry by the poet Park Sang Su, I Won’t Leave You as a Soliloquy.  Walking by the riverside, as my last impulse I make a call, “There are a lot of people here, people who wave their hands or rub their calves against the railing, people who look good for having somewhere to return to, I’m sure there’s someone who’d see me as the same, I don’t often take my pills and I can eat even less” From “Some Things Just Happen”Kim: Looking at the narrator’s situation, she can’t take the medicine she needs to, and she can’t even eat.Under these circumstances, she’s walking by the riverside, and it seems that she’s considering suicide. So she’s in need of someone to comfort her, and she makes this call.   Because some things just happen, because they didn’t happen outof a hate for you, don’t try to punish the world by hurting yourselfanymore, this winter we should share frozen persimmons by thecoal stove. From “Some Things Just Happen”Kim:  This is the reply she receives from the friend who picks up, who consoles her with these words: “No matter how hard things are, don’t try to take revenge on the world by hurting yourself. Let’s share delicious fruit by the warm stove.” If you have someone around you who can offer you comfort like this, I think it would make life worth living, even if you don’t live together. If you have someone by your side you can share comfort with, you’ve already formed a relationship that’s enough. Sohn: This series is about replying to your letters with messages of comfort through books, but this letter especially was a great comfort to us.Kim: Since this is such a great series, we’ll see you again next time with a new letter.Sohn: Book for You-Kim: Book for you!Sohn&Kim: Bye~Today’s Prescriptions:Bodies and Women & I Won’t Leave You as a Soliloquy  

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  Book for You

  [Book for You] I'd like to learn how to love myself before I try loving anyone else.

  Sohn Jeong-seung(Sohn): Hello, viewers of KLN’s Book for You! This is Sohn Jeong-seung, sending warm messages of comfort through the medium of books!Sohn: This year I’m joined by a new book prescriber to double the warmth of that comfort, and here he is! Kim Sanghyuk(Kim): Hello. I’m the new book prescriber, Kim Sanghyeok. I debuted as a poet in 2009, and I’ve been writing ever since. Sohn:  Pleased to meet you. Sohn: This is our first Book for You in a while, so we were worried that some of our viewers might’ve forgotten us, but we actually received a lot of different letters. Today we’re focusing on the subject of love in particular. This letter asks a question about relationships and attachment. Shall we listen to its story?Rema’s letter addressed to Book for YouI’ve always had attachment issues, and my fear of abandonment or rejectionmakes it difficult for me to trust or bond with others. I had a crush on someone, but he only ever saw meas a good friend, and I came to realize that my attachment to him was unhealthy.For the sake of my future relationships, I’d like to learn how to love myself before I try loving anyone else. Kim: It seems the problem is that it’s not easy to love yourself, because the words “Love yourself” can feel hollow.I think we need to get more specific than just repeating empty words like “Love someone” or “Love yourself.” There’s a solution that’s especially good for a booklover like Rema, and that’s to read. though you might think that’s a bit obvious.People often say that poems are useless, but personally I think poetry is the work of adding eyes, nose, and mouth to an unseen sensibility.So I can’t help but think that reading is something that makes yourself a bit more attractive a person.Feeling attraction to someone who is a deep thinker, or being able to offer that to someone else as one of your inalienable charms—I think that’s what reading can do.There’s a poet who’s excellent at adding eyes, nose, mouth, and subtle expressions to sensibility, and that’s the poet Kim Bok Hui. I’ve brought with me a poetry collection by her called Good for Sinking In. One dayOne long day without wind or rainIf I should meet a wavering leafI will waver I will halt my steps lost in thought(...)Some thoughts are prone to windsAnd some thoughts are full of rain I will think aboutthis giftFrom “The Gift of a Leaf”  Kim: The poem we read just now is an excerpt from Kim Bok Hui’s “The Gift of a Leaf.”When you look at this poem, she calls her introspective self a gift.I really liked that attitude.I think reading poetry like this can be a way to distance yourself when the world is too loud and take some time to yourself to quietly temper your aesthetic sensibility.Reading amazing poems also leads you to meet people with similar tastes, so I believe it can lead naturally to improved relationships in that aspect as well. How about putting a lovely smile on your face by reading poetry that gives expression to your sensibility?  Sohn: Being prone to introspection tends to lead to self-blame, but I can really feel the heart that described it as a gift.When I read Rema’s letter, there was a book that immediately came to mind, and it’s I Tinder You by the writer Jung Daegun.  Sohn: I Tinder You contains three short stories and an essay, and it’s the titular story that I’d like to introduce.“I Tinder You” stars the characters Ho and Sol, who meet on (the dating app) Tinder and very quickly grow close, and you see them spending a brief season in their lives together.These two say this to each other: “It doesn’t feel good to think of myself as your side piece, but it’s actually reassuring to think of us as each other’s spares.”  Sohn: This doesn’t mean their relationship is shallow and solely physical, or that they don’t know what each other means to them.Without realizing it, these two spend a time together called the “magic hour.”Ho, who’s worked in film for a long time, has this to say about the magic (or golden) hour, and I’ll read it to you now:When we’re filming, we call this brief moment the magic hour. You don’t want to miss this window, so all the staff and the actors are tense and focused,and it feels incredible. It’s precious because it’s so short.From I Tinder You Sohn: The story doesn’t end with Ho and Sol suddenly starting to date,or that they came to love themselves intensely or anything like that.But the reason I wanted to recommend it to Remais that I liked that Ho and Sol were already fully enjoying the things they thought they could only find in a committed relationship. I think the reason for getting too attached to someone is that they’re really precious to you, but you’re uncertain about your future together,and that uncertainty transfers itself to your present self. What’s important is that you can take comfort in anothereven if you aren’t necessarily in a committed relationship with them,and to be grateful that you spent a season in your life together,even if it doesn’t last forever! I hope you can move forward with that in your heart.That’s why I want to recommend this book to Rema.The truth is that the depth of a relationship isn’t proportionate to the time you spent together, but to your feelings for one another. Sohn:  Above all, the most important thing is that there are no absolute right answers in any relationship. Kim: That’s right. I think it’d be best for those who aren’t confident in their relationships, like Rema, to enter into relationships a bit more confidently and lightheartedly instead of clinging to relationships that don’t exist.That’s my recommendation. Sohn: I was really happy to be able to share our stories through books for the first time in a long while.How about you? Kim: I’m new to this, and I was so nervous it all passed by in a blur, but I’ve learned a lot listening today.We’ll see you next time, next letter, next prescription. Sohn: Book for You—  Kim: Book for You!Sohn&Kim: Bye everyone!

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  Book for You

  [Book for You] What should I do to increase my courage and confidence?

  You Hee-kyoung(You): Hello. This is Book for You from KLN. I’m your host, Yoo Hee-kyoung, a poet. Sohn Jeong-seung(Sohn): I’m Sohn Jeong-seung, director of Thanks Books. You: Do people tell you you seem confident? Sohn: Yes, sometimes. You: Wow. Sohn: I’m the type to come forward, not on my own but when someone urges me to. You: A confident answer. Why suddenly this talk about confidence?  Sohn: That’s the topic of today’s letter. Will you tell us about it? You: Yes, I’ll read the letter for you. Mayang’s letter addressed to ‘Book for You’ I am an introvert with the inhibitions and fear of socializing or public speaking. While dreaming of being a teacher sharing knowledge with students, I don’t have the confidence to be in front of them. What should I do to increase my courage and confidence? You: Confidence is something I also lack. I should leave all the talking to you, the one full of confidence. Sohn: Oh, no. You: First, let me prescribe a book to Mayang. It’s a poetry collection titled Inglorious Black Blood. It was first published in 1995, out of print for a while but back in publication in 2014. One of the major poetry collections from Minumsa, the publisher well known to you for Kim Ji-young, Born 1982. Heo Yeon, the poet, used to want to be a priest, but gave up that dream and became a poet. He had a long career as a newspaper reporter. This is the first of his total of five poetry collections. What I can do to you is not living in this world Not living in this country Not living this era If I had been rainwater to you Would you be alive Alive in the river’s swell Salutations to all that flows without forgetting Even so, the thought that I am butterfly in sunset From "Thought That I Am Butterfly" (translated by Hoyoung Moon) You: The poet was deeply in love with ‘you’ but broke up. The only thing the poet can do for ‘you’ is to be gone, but that’s impossible.  What remains is ‘me,’ or ‘hope.’ What Mayang must have, and does have, is hope. Mayang exists as a human being in this world and must be self-protective no matter what happens. There’s a chance this poetry collection will find Mayang. In fact, it is being translated and will be published in English. Hopefully, Mayang will read it someday and have hope. The one thing we can never let go,  the thing that makes anything possible, even the butterfly in the sunset, is ‘hope.’ Sohn: As for my impression from the letter, Mayang may not be a teacher yet,but struck me as one. Mayang already has the right mindset and makes me envy her future students. Here is a book that will give Mayang courage: Listen, I’m Speaking, a novel by Jeong Yong-joon. Sohn: The title says it all. “Listen, I’m Speaking!” Might as well have an exclamation mark. You: As in “Attention!” Sohn: Exactly. This book is about Muyeon, a 14-year-old patient of ‘Spring Speech Clinic.’ But Muyeon is not his real name. This clinic’s patients are assigned names after the words they cannot pronounce. You: So, Muyeon can’t pronounce ‘Muyeon’? Sohn: Right. ‘Muyeon’ is the name of his middle school.  This clinic has other patients, including a doctor who is called ‘prescription’ because that’s the word he cannot pronounce. Their speech disorders are due to psychological reasons. They try, fail, run away from the curriculum, try again, only to fail again... This is repeated throughout the story. A spoiler alert. Muyeon suddenly becomes... a fluent speaker...is not how the story ends. You: Too bad. Sohn: But hope remains. The story won’t leave you sad at all. You: Even though Muyeon can’t pronounce that word, what remains is hope so it won’t make you sad in the end. Sohn: That’s right. To be fair, public speaking is scary and difficult to anyone. You: It is. Sohn: Let me read some related passages. Normal people stutter, too. They aren’t good speakers, either. Nor do they say everything they want to. Everyone is a stutterer to a certain extent. We’re simply a little worse than others. You will see once you stop stuttering. From Listen, I’m Speaking Sohn: Here is my message for Mayang: She is already fully qualified to be a teacher and all she needs is a little more courage. Teenagers seem to have a special radar. They recognize adults who empathize with them. You: They do! Like a magic eye! Sohn: Exactly. Mayang already has that empathy. I believe that’s enough to be a good teacher. You: We’re all humans, good at something and bad at something else. What matters is whether we do what we can do right now, see where we stand and what more to prepare. Sohn: This was another happy episode of sharing our stories through books. You: We promise to come backwith other books to comfort us. Sohn: Book for You You: Book for You You&Sohn: Bye~

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  Book for You

  [Book for You] I hope to find courage to achieve my dream.

  You Hee-kyoung(You) : Hello! This is Book for You from KLN. I am your host, You Hee-kyoung, a poet. Today, we have a special new book prescriber. Please introduce yourself. Sohn Jeong-seung(Sohn): Hello. I am Sohn Jeong-seung, your new book prescriber and the director of Thanks Books. You: How are you doing these days? Sohn: It’s New Year. I am setting new goals and plans, preparing for a new beginning. You: Today’s episode, based on a letter from the Philippines, is also about the future and resolutions. Sohn: That’s right. You: Will you read the letter for us? Lyka’s letter addressed to Book for You I am looking for a job as a certified librarian, a dream come true. But my real dream is to open a coffee shop with a small library in it, where customers could relax while browsing my collection. This is an exciting dream, but I wonder, not even having a job yet, when I will have enough money saved to make it come true. I hope to find courage through your book prescription.   You: Running such a shop ourselves, we know its reality. Lyka is pursuing a risky business... Your book prescription for her? Sohn: First, congratulations to Lyka for becoming a librarian. You: Congratulations! She passed the difficult exam! Sohn: Indeed. She has worked hard and is excited and worried about her future. The first book that came to mind is this: Street Painter, written and illustrated by Soo Shin Ji. The bestselling author of Gone and Daughter-in-Law based this book on her art college years. The main character Arang, a senior paint student, becomes a part-time street painter, along with four middle-aged male artists, painting caricatures at a park. Arang does not falter but finds her own way by asking advice from an artist friend or trying to get along with the male artists. You: She’s learning the skills of a street painter! Sohn: Exactly. She and the four male artists start as competitors but end up as good friends and partners. Let me share some passages from this graphic novel. They’re lines, meant to be acted rather than read. You: I happen to be a theater expert! Let me see them. Sohn: You play Cheolsoo, one of the male artists. Arang: Saw the weather forecast? It’s going to rain allweek next week.   Cheolsoo: It’s OK. Winter is a slow season, anyway... Whenspring comes… boom!   Arang: Really? Wow, I can’t wait!   Cheolsoo: When it’s cold and rainy, let’s just practicepainting!                                                                                                                                                                                        From Street Painter   Sohn: For me, this refreshing dialogue was an exercise in changing perspectives. The bad weather is something we can complain about forever. They could have done that, too. Instead, they accepted it and moved on. I think that was great. You: I agree. Even when we feel helpless, there are still things we can do to prepare for the future. Although Lyka needs a job right now, it is not a waste of time but a great investment for her future. Sohn: Exactly! When it’s cold and rainy, let’s just practice painting so we can paint a nice rainbow after the rain…! You: Lyka’s letter reminded me of my own bookstore.  A library combined with a coffeeshop is called a ‘book café’ in Korea. My own ‘Wit N Cynical,’ which sells books and coffee, is of a similar type. As a firm believer in reading books, determined to save my bookstore, I have many side jobs. That’s exhausting, frustrating, and makes me want to cry, and I do cry sometimes. There’s a poem that gave me courage. Let me read it for you and Lyka.  How am I supposed to piece together these brokendreams? How far should I go with a broken backbone? Is there any possibility left?   Nevertheless,   I am trying to be a believer in the possible, placing my faith in the possibility of the impossible   From A Believerin the Possible   You: This poem, “A Believer in the Possible,” is from the poetry collection of the same title. It’s by poet Ra Heeduk. With her poems translated into various languages, her name is probably familiar to KLN readers.  What drew me to this poem is the word “Nevertheless.” “Something is wrong. Nevertheless, it will get right.” This is the essence of possibility. Lyka! You’re so young and poor now that your dream may seem distant to you. “Nevertheless,” keep on dreaming and trying and someday you’ll have your own library café full of customers. Let’s believe in the value of books and reading and dream the dream together. Someday, I will visit Lyka’s library café in the Philippines for a look around and a cup of coffee. This was another happy episode of sharing our stories through books. Let’s look forward to the next episode. Sohn: Book for You You: Book for You You&Sohn: Bye~

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